Be sure to head to OnlyFans official IG and check out the cute new holiday video they dropped! With an appearance from yours truly π and @therustyranger too!! Swipe to watch the segment with me and Claire!
Merry Christmas babes! I'm so grateful for each and every one of you for being here with me and for your support! I hope you are having a great day no matter what you're doing. If its a regular old Friday for you or if you are celebrating the holiday today, I hope it's lovely π₯°π I'll still be sending out my usual Friday set to your dms sometime today so keep an eye out! ππ
Maybe I'm a Grinch, but I need a break from Christmas Content π π It's been a little while since I've posted a Get Ready with Me tutorial, so here ya go! Someone asked how I normally wave my hair, so this ones for you! I love curling my hair with a flat iron- it definitely gives me the best result, personally. Smooth, long lasting, and lots of body and dimension! DM me with any questions! I'm actually working all day today, but I will work my way through some messages, and as always tipped messages get pushed to the top of my list so they will get responded to first π hope you're having a great Christmas Eve!
Song: Heat Wave by Glass Animals
Happy Hump πͺ Day! Or Christmas Eve Eve for those who celebrate π π Do you celebrate? If so, are you ready? I still have to go grab 2 things but then I'm all done!
So I'm really struggling to get in to the ~~Christmas Spirit~~ this year, so I've tried to go out of my way to do Christmas-y stuff to try get there! Today I got the last of my Christmas presents (only exchanging with one friend, one thing for my partner, and of course most of these are for my little bb nephew!) and finished wrapping them all today! I got this wrapping paper for my nephew but it's cute so everyone gets it! Are you feeling ~Christmas-y~ this year at all?
Christmas is only a few days away! If I did Christmas cards, these would be my pictures for them π π who wants to see outtakes cuzzzzzzz.....there's some pretty funny ones. Fun fact, Mabel doesn't like getting her picture taken very much π€£π€£ but look how cute she is π₯Ί
Ya girl is a Christmas Elf today at work! π π π pretending to be in the holiday spirit anyway! Last night I decorated cookies, so that helped too! Swipe to see my extremely professional looking Christmas Cookies (and don't mind the bell with eyeballs on it in the lower corner....I can't stay TOO normal with my decorating π€£π€£ππ)
Happy Saturday babies! I hope you're having an amazing start to the weekend! If you're looking for someone new to subscribe to, follow one of my Hair Besties, Alina! Her profile is all about fashion, dance, and hair! Plus she's so cute and her profile is free! https://onlyfans.com/kitsuuvulpes
Happy Friday!! What are your plans for the weekend? I'm going to decorate cookies with my sister tonight but that's about it π so wild! As always, the rest of this set will be in your DMs soon π hope you are all having an amazing day! ππ
Maybe I do a silver/lavender tone again for my hair....π€ Definitely will have to get as much of this yellow out as possible because...color wheel! PS remember when you could safely go out for your birthday with friends and not have to worry about Covid or masks or anything? Feels like a dream tbh. At work all day today bbs so thanks for your patience as I get through messages!
Throwback to this color by @seitansm1stress cuz it faded out just so perfectly. Those blue lines are still popping to this day and this was originally done in February π± such a fun color!
Sorry I haven't been active on here literally at all today. I've had a really hard, triggering, and mentally and emotionally draining day. I'm fine though, just need a break. And in case you need to hear it, fat bodies are worthy. You are worthy just as you are. Your emotions are valid. And I love you! Have a great night babes, I will respond to messages in the morning. Thank you for your patience and, as always, being here with me.
Hey babes! I spent all day making new stuff content just for you all here ππtime to sort through and work on that, but I'll be on tomorrow to go through messages! As always thanks for your patience and thank you for being here π₯°π₯°ππ
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I haven't posted much about the actual work that goes into body positivity yet, but people ask me alllllllll the time how to work on confidence, self esteem, and body image so let's give it a shot.
I don't air my trauma very frequently online, but years ago after falling into multiple eating disorders, I sought help and went to therapy. It saved, and changed, my life. After losing over 90 pounds in a few months binging, purging, and starving myself in between binging and purging, I hated myself and my body more than I ever did at my heaviest. I wanted to die. I felt trapped in my body and in my mind. (I've now gained all that weight back and then some, by the way, and my metabolism will probably never recover. Doing the things I did slows and messes with your metabolism long term and I've definitely noticed that) I say all this to tell you from personal experience your weight really has nothing to do with your body image. The negative things we constantly tell ourselves, the way we talk to ourselves, many times that determines our body image. (There are more nuanced things here as well, fat folks can have great body image and self esteem but that doesn't change how society treats them which can impact mental health in and of itself, but maybe another day for that discussion π )
My biggest thing i advocate is learning to ditch negative self talk. The Internet is never a replacement for therapy with a professional (unless of course you're using a therapy app like Talkspace, etc) but there are some amazing resources out there. One of my favorite accounts is @thebodyimagetherapist on Instagram. She recently posted this thread and I think those of you struggling with body image (which is completely normal by the way, and even people with great body image most days still struggle sometimes!) may get something out of this. Happy Sunday π
Lucky for you, but not so lucky for me, I got no showed at work. (Pro tip: don't do this to service providers, especially during a pandemic. Just call, text, or email us and cancel. We don't care especially when you give us notice. Being blindsided and not being able to fill that spot tho....nah thats a one way ticket to you-can't-book-with-me-anymore land, if people don't show up, I don't get paid.) Lucky for you though because.... now I have a few minutes to respond to DMs! I respond to tipped ones first and then work my way through oldest first so hang tight! Hope you're having a lovely Saturday!
Happy Saturday, loves! Heading into work for a longggg day today, but it's raining and cold out so I guess that's okay π I'll be sporadically checking messages though, so hold tight and thanks for your patience! What are you doing today? π
Hey, loves! Hope you all have had an amazing Thursday! πβΊ I'm slowly but surely making my way through DMs so hold tight! It's time for me to relax and decompress after a long day in the salon so I will be continuing to respond to you all tomorrow! Can't wait to chat and thanks for your patience and for being here with me! πππ₯°π₯°
In honor of being in the salon all day, here's a recent creation! She had never color her hair before so we started out with some pops of caramel balayage throughout! I'm going to be making a little video of this soon so stay tuned! ππ
Thank you to everyone who donated to my fundraiser to up my coffee game either on the post or with other tips/purchases! I got both the kettle and the new pourover that has a reusable permanent filter (yay for the environment!) I have had a busy day but will be responding to messages ASAP! Thank you for being here and being amazing and supporting me and my cause and my art! Love you all so much!
My tattoo is healing, so while I wait to take new pics, here's one of me in a sweater FROM my tattoo artist! She is amazing and I also do her hair :) whats extra awesome is this sweater is super cozy and comfy and from American Eagle?! What?! Their clothes have never fit me but this is an XXL (I normally wear a 3 at Torrid) and fits great! Sizing is weird π in other news, I get to go have my hair cut today! Just needing a trim...it's been wayyyyy to long. It's hard for stylists to find time to get our own hair done, I swear! But that's ok π then I will be back on this afternoon to keep responding to your dms! What do you have planned for this lovely Wednesday??
Here's a little hair content for you this morning! In winter and summer a lot of my clients get braids to help manage their hair (summers are super humid, winters are super dry) but protective styles don't mean Zero Maintenance! You still need to maintain the health of your scalp and natural hair to ensure your hair is not stressed when those braids come down! This client normally comes in weekly for a wash, deep condition, blow dry, and flat iron but is taking a break from heat so got these stunning Knotless Braids! This is how we maintain her- she comes in for this every 2 weeks while wearing braids.
Ps: the Steven Universe song has nothing to do with this but......Steven Universe!!! One of my favorites π₯°
My biggest and favorite piece is done! And I have my next appointment set up for February for something elseπ π π swipe to see how it looked as just the bb outline!
Happy Sunday!!!! My favorite day because it is the start to my weekend π coffee, animal crossing, and movies are in my forecast for the day! Remember to take time to decompress and recharge today! If it's sunny where you are, go soak it in for a minute and if it's not, well, get cozy and relax inside! My favorite saying is "you can't pour from an empty cup". It's easy to get caught up in wanting to put other people first- and sometimes that's totally fine and even necessary! But if you're feeling overwhelmed or burnt out, take a second for just you!
π·: @therustyranger
SKIRT: Hot Topic
SHIRT:Torrid
SWEATER: Target
I don't have a button up shirt right now but this is what I would probably wear if I was in Umbrella Academy anyway π π I love the subtle little details in this skirt, a tiny umbrella in the front and "The Umbrella Academy" in print along the waistline. Keep an eye on DMs later for the rest of this set! Who's your favorite character? I feel like I have to say Klaus but I would totally want Allison's power π or number 5. I dont know... it's too hard to pick!
SKIRT: Hot Topic
SWEATER: Forever 21