Flexing is a real thing. I believe there is an art to it and when done correctly it can really show off your muscles. I donโt know how to flex correctly, but I do have the smiling part down pretty well. ๐ ๐
โThe more grateful I am, the more beauty I see.โ โ Mary Davis ๐
I hope you all donโt mind my quotes. ๐ Itโs a favorite pastime of mine to read quotes that push me to be a valuable constituent to those who find me. ๐ฅฐ
Our attitude is a powerful force. I try to use mine in way that is altruistic, symbiotic, harmonious, and unifying. Itโs not always easy, but the best things rarely are. ๐
Itโs almost Thanksgiving. I have mixed feelings about the origination of this holiday, but I do support the idea of people displaying cognitive recognition of their blessings.
If I had enough time I could probably fill up this text box with the maximum allowed characters rambling about all that Iโm thankful for. Now, we could also probably all try to one up each other on the sacrifices we have made in life, the unjust situations we have endured, and compare difficulties weโve overcome, but tomorrow isnโt about that. Itโs about gratitude. Itโs about showing love, sharing words and acts of thanks, and acknowledging all of the good we have in our life. Iโm thankful for a day to do this because without checkpoints in life we can exhaust an insatiable drive. So be sure you are fighting to climb your mountains, but always pausing here and there to savor the views, to thank the trees for their cover, the sun for its light, the rivers for water, and the ground for a place to rest.
Iโm thankful for my life, for my family and friends, the animals in my life, and for all that is to come. ๐ Did I mention Iโm thankful for the raw landscape and mesmerizing wilderness of Alaska? ๐๐๐๏ธ
Lastly, one of my favorite quotes that embodies the way I want to live is this one: โThe world is big and I want to have a good look at it before it gets dark.โ -John Muir
Only, I want to look at it under the light of the stars too. ๐โญ๏ธ๐ซ Iโm thankful for another day to look, tomorrow.
I have been doing a fair amount of cross training to help me become stronger for both my climbing and riding. Usually I get to the gym at least 3 days a week. Sometimes less and sometimes more, but I have really been enjoying the addition of weights to my routine. Another thing I have been focusing on is strengthening my legs and toning my glutes.
This new (to me) exercise has really been making the backs of my upper legs sore, but I like it! ๐๐ป This move involves balancing your feet flat on a ball with your pelvis elevated as high as you can and knees bent. With your weight on your shoulders and arms stretched out for balance you straighten your legs by allowing the ball to roll out, then pull it back in. Iโve been doing 3 x 2 minute intervals and my legs and ๐ are burning by the end.
Donโt worry Iโll try share progress pics periodically as I go. ๐๐
Morning candids ๐ธ I think I can see some positive changes happening to my ๐ and ๐ฆต๐ผ from all of the ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ I have been lifting. ๐
Now that Iโve been on @onlyfans for over a year I get to see my โon this dayโ memories pop up in my story. Itโs inspiring even to me to see the reminders of how Iโve always tried to keep my page inspirational, meaningful, and motivating for everyone.
Iโve always been a dreamer, someone who has faith in the world, and a person who wholeheartedly holds onto the idea that good things will happen for those who do good. Sure I can be taken down by negativity, and hate hurts me as much as the next person, but the hunger and drive inside of me has always somehow prevailed.
Everybody learns their ways from observation and/or by mimicking the actions of those whom they see doing well. I have had lots of people enter my life, both directly and indirectly, to help me target and hold my focus in the best kind of ways. I hope my page is an indirect source of positive targeting for others.
Today Iโm positive will be a great Monday. ๐๐๐ I started mine off in a new set of panties with celebratory talk over my weekend and some fun finds from my favorite tack shop! Want to see what I got? ๐๐
I spent the weekend showing one of the most noble creatures on Earth. ๐ I get to call him mine, but Iโm just as much his.
Thereโs a story I once heard about how a person can have something invaluable, a prized possession that in the correct light is coveted by all. The same priceless treasure could be overlooked or even mistaken as rubbish to those unaware of its most polished state.
O was a lost treasure that Iโll forever value as a partner, a coveted gem, and trusty sidekick in my life. He came to me with bad habits, but he had only developed them from improper handling.
Horses do not make choices with forethought like humans, but similar to us, they do recognize and respond to joy, kindness, and consistency, as well as, mishandling, pain, and pressure. Most species have the cognitive ability to understand when another creature is genuinely interested in their best interest.
Lucky for me, O crossed my path. I could relate to his reactions, empathize with his situation, and I had the space for his life to add to my purpose. It took time and patience to get us to where we are, but O was my diamond in the rough. He is living proof to serve as a reminder that when all is almost lost you might still have someone show up and alter the course of your life. ๐
O did win a lot of pretty ribbons over the weekend, BUT at the end of it all the ribbons do not matter, only the quality of the ride and the heart of the horse. ๐๐
Some days arenโt as colorful as others. There will be days that feel boring and mundane or sad and empty, but hopefully youโll have someone who shows up to restore the loss of vibrancy in your life. It might be someone who you would have never expected. Whoever it is, once you feel the color come back youโll never forget them for helping you see it again.
In the movie, Trolls (random, I know), Branch is kind of grumpy and not portrayed as the happiest troll, but in the movie he helps the others get their color back. Iโll always love Branch a little more for that scene. ๐๐ฉทโค๏ธ๐งก๐๐๐ Now you should all go listen to โTrue Colorsโ ๐ต๐ฅฒ๐ This world makes you crazy And you've taken all you can bear Just call me up 'Cause I will always be there ๐ฅฐ I love that song .. and the message ๐๐ฅฐ๐ Letโs all try to be a Branch for someone when they need it.
I think I have mentioned Sunday is my favorite day of the week. For whatever reason it seems like people show each other the most respect on Sundays. At least for me (living in the south) Sunday is considered a day of rest and a day that people tend to be a tad bit more considerate of otherโs getting the day โoffโ of work. For those who work in fields that often require availability any day of the week, night or day, it can become hard to relax. A constant โon callโ state can lead a person to experience anxiety, feelings of unrest, it can negatively affect their mood while inhibiting the person from thinking they can start anything for fear of being called in. I like to avoid these feelings by escaping to the mountains any chance I get. Today Iโm not โon callโ for work, but I still heard the mountains beckoning me. ๐ฒ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ๐
Itโs known in the horse world that when the weather starts to cool off, they can become a little more forward, a little more frisky, and a bit more unpredictable.
Turns out, the same thing happens with some women ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ๐คญ๐
This set features me in a geometric, sheer bodysuit โฆ I think itโs cute and Fall-ish ๐๐ค and I could probably wear the socks with my tall boots ๐ค๐ฅฐ
๐ค Itโs beginning to look a lot like Christmas ๐ โฆinside of Shellyโs house ๐ถ ๐คญ
I donโt always put up my decorations before Thanksgiving, but this year I want to have time to really enjoy them. Life is busy and full and waiting too long to decorate can make it feel like Iโm pulling them all out to barely see them, and then pack them right back up.
Everyone may or may not enjoy their decorations or want them out this early, but Iโm not actually home for that long each day so Iโd rather have the extra time. โค๏ธ๐โค๏ธ๐
My little living room isnโt a space that I spend much time in, but I do like for it to feel cozy and inviting. For the times I do get inside early enough for lounging around to watch a movie or to relax by my fireplace I have wanted a couch with a chaise lounge. While out shopping for a completely different piece of furniture I happened upon a couch that felt perfect for my space. I like how it fits and it gives me plenty of room to stretch out for relaxing evenings to come. ๐
I was thinking: I get to do a lot of fun things in my life. You guys have no idea how much work I do behind the scenes to be able to do all of these fun things; but, for those of you who live in the real world like me and have literally climbed from nowhere to where you areโฆ well, I believe you probably have an idea.
As Iโve been improving my video editing skills I thought Iโd try to step up my @oftv intro to showcase some of the highlights of my favorite things.
What do you guys think? ๐ ๐ ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๏ธ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐ช๐ป๐ฅ๐ผ
๐ต Another day in the life, Used to have to scrape to get by, Now my farm is gated and I made it, And my neighbors say hi ๐
Name that song and artist ๐๐ป (for the real song!) โฆ lyrical edits made by me ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐
Video really is just another morning with me ๐ โฆ and it took three tries for me to not laugh during the beginning scene while I was counting! ๐คฃ๐ช๐ป
That face you canโt help but make, when youโre working hard and it hurts so good ๐ฅฐ
Working on those gains โฆ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ Cross training for ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธso I can crush those cruxes ๐
If you want to be better at something you can either keep wanting or put in the work to be better. Join me as we all go for the second option! ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ We can make funny faces together. ๐๐คญ
Iโm a little late getting this up today, but Iโve been up and out all day. Now, Iโm hoping this gets you up if youโve been missing my help with that today. ๐คญ๐ฅฐ๐
Individuals who do outstanding things, particularly those who do selfless acts for the benefit of a larger group, deserve recognition, gratitude, and our appreciation. Veterans definitely belong in this group. With Monday rapidly approaching be sure to like this post if you (1) are a veteran or (2) if you promise to do something kind for a veteran between now and Monday.
Everyone who likes this post by the end of day on Monday, will get a Shelly surprise sent to their messages. ๐ฅฐ
Night check โฆ itโs something done at most barns to make sure all of the horses are safe and doing well right before the barn hand turns in for the night.
All looks pretty fine here in the barn for now. ๐คญ๐
I have an update on this handsome stud coming to my @oftv channel soon! ๐๐ด๐ 18 months and counting ๐๏ธ๐
I have worked my entire life for so many of the things I have now. Astro is a horse that I created after choosing his dam and sire. Of all of my horses he is one that I made happen through a process of events. Each of my horses hold their own special spot in my heart, but this one seems to have an extra connection that is strengthening and growing as he matures. What a wonderful life it is and what a wonderful thing to take a moment to appreciate it. I might not have as much as many, but I have more than I once dreamed. Life is goodโฆ. And my horses make it even better. ๐
I hope you all have some of the things that you wished for years ago and that your hard work pays off in all of the best ways for your life. ๐ฅฐ
Take me back โฆ โ๏ธ โค๏ธ Here or there โฆ I can go anywhere when I close my eyes: I can see the sparkles, remember the frigid breeze, and the way life feels when your senses are all heightened by the extremes of Alaskan wonder.
Iโll be back, but until then Iโll visit in my mind, replay the memories, and plan for the future. โจ๐๏ธโจ Where does your mind take you when you visit your favorite destination?
I did a little camping over the weekend. Listening to the leaves and pine needles tap along the tent walls at night and in the quiet of the morning is a refreshing way to drift off and wake to a new day. Relaxing in the evening to the crackle of a warm fire and losing yourself to random thoughts as you stare into dancing flames is peaceful. ๐ฅ Life feels slower in the woods, more tranquil and a lot more simple.
Iโll let you sit by the fire with me if you want, but it takes me dressing down into thin lingerie to find an ideal compromise with the heat of the fire and coolness in the air. My tent is plenty roomy. You can come in and check it out or catch a little peek of my silhouette on my tent wall. Donโt mind me while I make myself comfortable. ๐๐๏ธ๐
Shellyโs (favorite kind of) Sunday in the South ๐ค๐
For a few weeks I felt like I was never home on the weekend! My life is busy with all of the things I do for work, but then add in vacations (close together) and wow, it feels nice to be home! I know, I know, โwoe is me,โ๐ but the only way I actually get a break from my real job is to leave town. ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
When I am home I try to ride at least 3 times a week. I definitely donโt jump O that often, but we either do flatwork in the arena or stroll around the property checking the fences and enjoying the ever changing colors of the seasons. ๐ ๐
Thoroughbreds often tend to be pretty hot headed horses and not every Thoroughbred is suitable for pleasure riding outside of the arena. I know I mention it all of the time, but O is pretty amazing. He has a story just like you and me. The way he became a part of my life is proof that certain things are meant to be. He came to me unexpectedly during a time that I wasnโt looking for another horse. It was as if life knew he was supposed to be around.
O might not be the fanciest mover or flashiest horse in the world, but he couldnโt be more perfect for me.
Itโs been a little while since I talked about how important it is for people to have a hobby. A hobby can be anything that someone chooses to do in their leisure time. My favorite hobbies are riding horses and rock climbing. These activities not only provide me with benefits from the physical exercise they require, but they add to my self worth and help me build confidence in numerous ways. Horseback riding, specifically, improves my ability to reason and reflect on how another creature feels and will react to me: my voice, my body language, my touch, and my presence. Riding conditions me to handle myself appropriately to yield an outcome that keeps me safe, having fun, and reflecting on my ability to affect another living animal. When we are both comfortable and enjoying each other it can feel like we have escaped the mundane routine of an ordinary day. The best part of riding and interacting with my horses is that they require focus. My focus on them temporarily erases my focus from any stress associated with the lesser parts of life.
Riding or climbing may not be your thing, but Iโd love to hear what hobby frees your soul from routine? Now, take a minute to reflect and make sure you are saying yes to yourself enough to enjoy it!