


do you ever think about others, and how each individual person is basically, like, their own little universe? we all experience and see things differently, like colors. my blue may not look the same as yours! or things like our senses. some people love the smell of lavender, while some people hate it. others love olives and i hate them :o when you go to look at something, in that moment, it only exists to you in that specific way that you're experiencing it. all the little nuances of life are different to everyone, and while you can sit there and have conversations with people, at the end of the day, you can have a different impression of experiences than someone else does, even if you experienced the same thing. it's just like how something may hurt someone or bother them, and someone else could just feel indifferent about it. that's why when someone says "don't be sad, others have it worse", i always like to say, "you wouldn't tell someone "don't be happy because others have it better" would you?". your feelings are valid, no matter what it is. everyone experiences things differently, and that's the cool thing about humans. -Lotus 🌺