







π**The Boyfriend**π Only one guy in the lifestyle has wanted to be my boyfriend. We had just entered the lifestyle and Iβd only had a few partners. Drew found this amazing guyβ¦2 decades younger than me, good looking, great chat, lived only 10 min from meβ¦and married with two kids. BUT, he and his wife were in the lifestyle. She had a boyfriend my age. My new friend wanted to be my boyfriend but it was all too new. I didnβt want to be exclusive or have a serious relationship. I wanted to have fun exploring. So we met once a month for a few months. But he started getting under my skin. And sure enough, soon I was visiting him late at night when his wife was at her BFβs house & his kids were asleep. I still recall lying in his bed, legs intertwined while we chatted after sex. I have alot of great memories with him. The idea of having him as a boyfriend didnβt seem so bad after all. But a crisis had him breaking things off with me so he could focus on his family. He reached out many months later, but our time together had happened. I still have yet to experience a date in public with a guy. All my dates have been in hotel rooms, at lifestyle clubs, or at a residence. Iβd like to have a βboyfriend experienceβ and be taken out. Someday.