*Underneath the covers* 😈 We are who we are. I've always fo..

*Underneath the covers* 😈 We are who we are. I've always found myself as somebody fairly intrigued by sexual narratives and the switching between dominant and submissive. On many spectrums, I'm not a typical domme. Obviously, I have muscular development on my 5"3 frame, but I'm a little mild when it comes to the mainstream domination type material you'd see elsewhere. I find it hard to go all the way. Instead, I see from my own perspective that dominance and 'power' in the bedroom pertains to the words you use and how you heighten sexual emotion and desire. I like having the ability to build a guy up, ensure that he pleads with me to cum and dishes out a few compulsory booty worshipping segments during sex! Now, I'll add, I'm also the sweet type who'd love to cuddle with him afterwards, make him a nice drink and his favourite meal to eat. See, I think many get lost with the whole 'dominant' thing as somebody who can be a bit of a bitch and who is ruthless. I mean, I can turn it up a few notches, but I'll ensure I deploy my milder dominance tactics when the times are right. At the core, the most important thing is my guy in that very moment and giving him an incredible time that I hope he'll never forget. The words, the subtle power plays, the ways of building things up and dictating the pace or positioning of sex - these are things I'd refer to as sexual superpowers. I'm still a girl who'd shed tears at a particular romance film (A Star is Born and The Notebook have my heart) and melt inside when I'm bought flowers. I appreciate a man for the effort he makes. The kind words he uses. The way he treats those around him he loves. I notice that genuinely wholesome guys feel, particularly in this day and age of unforgiving dating apps, anonymous online forums and social media filters, that romance and intimacy can be dead. Trust me, there are girls out there who are craving just what you are. Connection, laughs, timeless memories and intimacy in every form possible. Oh, and I'll appropriately add - these girls can be absolute nymphos for the right guy. That could (and in time, WILL) be you. I just know it.