BDSM just gives me another way to be a caretaker. It enables me to zoom in on my partner(s) specific desires in the moment. It betters my communication skills overall. Itβs meditative at times. Healing in many ways. The power exchange is a reminder of how I interact in non sexual encounters everyday with nature and other forces. Itβs trust and love making love. It also strengthens my spirituality. I feel since Iβve accepted and chosen the role as a dominant Itβs important I be present and submit to spirit so that Iβm always aligned with myself and my partner(s) π€