The timing of your pro-active sex talks is important. You mu..
Added 2022-01-17 21:00:46 +0000 UTCThe timing of your pro-active sex talks is important. You must not broach the subject at a time that might suggest you are initiating a sexual encounter. Over a private meal and during a walk are fine opportunities. Talking right after sex can be ideal, especially if she has indicated that it was particularly good for her. The second step is to ask an exploratory question, one that invites your wife to explore meaning, value, and preferences. Here are some sample questions: “What role do you think sex plays in our marriage?” “Can you recall the best sex we’ve ever had? I wonder what was so good about it.” “What does sex mean to you? What meaning do you think I ascribe to sex? “If our sex-life spontaneously started to change in a good direction, what would be the initial signs of improvement?”
