Hello lovers! I’m sure some of you have noticed that I haven..
Added 2023-07-17 16:20:18 +0000 UTCHello lovers! I’m sure some of you have noticed that I haven’t been so excited to be on here lately. This is because of a recent incident, where I was accused of giving another performer an STI (prior to this performer even testing for it). Whenever I collaborate with anyone, I get a full panel STI test and request that the other performers follow through as well and they did. About two days after filming I was contacted by the performer with a long paragraphs of text telling me they had a panic attack about a bump on their face. I can’t help but feel some whorephobia and slut shaming from this since this performer has a “normal job” and I am a full-time sex worker. I also have a lot of anxiety as a chronically ill person about getting anyone else sick with anything and this felt like it confirmed my anxious suspicion. I spent an entire evening panicking about this, worried I would be shamed out of the community or doxxed. This performer does in fact not have this STI and I did not transfer anything to them, they let me know that the test came back negative. I am now understandably a bit afraid of working with performers who aren’t my personal partners because of this. I have videos with them that I am supposed to post here but I have a bad taste in my mouth about it, since the whole experience feels tainted. I could also say a lot about STI shaming, and how you should never accuse someone of giving you some thing without confirmation that is factual. With all this being said, please be patient with me when it comes to making new content over the next few weeks that isn’t solo or with my my partner @dollienovah. I hope you can understand my perspective on this and continue to stick around ❤️
