They say that time heals. Usually by healing, we mean gettin..

They say that time heals. Usually by healing, we mean getting rid of illnesses, physical wounds and ailments. But there are also mental wounds. Their best healer is time. Insults, betrayal of friends, unhappy love, quarrels with loved ones cause a lot of suffering. What doctor to turn to in order to heal the pain? Psychotherapist? A psychologist? Yes, when necessary, but the situation must be really serious. He will help you understand that life does not end here, that you still have everything to come, tell how to behave and what to do. Specialists talk, give advice and no doubt help, but they can't put you out of your misery all at once. And sedatives don't help for long. So treatment takes time. But what about the ordinary troubles that also hurt, but do not lead to depression or a nervous breakdown? Only time can help here. The worse the pain, the more it will take so that it first dulls, and then disappears. A day, a week, a month... Then everything is not as sharp and painful as it was in the beginning. I was convinced of this a couple of years ago, when my best friend didn't just stop communicating with me, but tried her best to hurt me, to make fun of me. And I couldn't understand why! It was very bad, I was worried and even cried at night: we had been together since kindergarten, she knew all my secrets ... That was the first time I heard from my grandmother: "Don't worry, everything will get better. Time heals. I didn't understand that at the time. It seemed to me that my pain would never go away... But, really, some time passed and it became easier. I got used to being away from her, started hanging out with other girls more and gradually stopped suffering and tormenting myself. I let go, as my grandmother said. We still don't communicate. Of course it was unfortunate that it happened this way, but I don't see it as a tragedy anymore. I remember with a smile how we used to be friends, slept over at each other's houses, even went on vacation together. The pain was gone. And now I know for sure that even if the situation seems terrible and the pain tears the heart, you just have to try to survive it, do not give up, do not drown in your grief. There will always be people around to support you. All things pass, this will also pass, as the legendary King Solomon said. Time is the best healer. 🙌😁👌🤷‍♀️⌚💔